Thursday, June 7, 2012
Step kid, dads and families
I just got reamed with a doozy. My BF resents my kids. 7 years. I am really sad about this because i thought we were getting somewhere. I was wrong. Or at least I didnt want to see it or hear it. My girls are on summer break. Out of school 2 weeks. They are sleeping in, like he did as a teen. They get up and eat, like he did as a teen, they make plans with their friends, like he did as a teen. They do chores when asked, like he did as a teen. They ask for rides and money. like he.... they stay up late, like he... They dont go out of their way but they dont argue with us either. they are not perfect but they dont have to be. they are doing what teens do. They dont fight with each other. They don't lie. they dont use alcohol. They are just living life. And now I know they are making him unhappy. He is always unhappy when they are home and my heart is broken. because I owe my kids a happy home. they deserve it and so do I. FUUUUUUUUck new plan.